Stop Smoking Help Blog

Jonathan2 C says:

Okay, quitting smoking is VERY HARD TO DO!

Understand, Tobacco, is a DRUG!

A very Strong DRUG!

Especially without motivation from your/our loved ones.
Motivation, is a generalized word, a polite word for
Reward and Punnishment.

How exciting or sexual do you want to make it or keep it ??
Personally I recommend both something like the “Patches” and then motivation. Patches work for the ordinary moments, of not smoking, your form of “Motivation” works for when he is really thinking about smoking a cigarette.

I would say 75% of cigarettes smoked are not really conscious, we just smoke them cause we are used to doing that, have time on your hands, I know I will smoke a cigarette, the few cigarettes that we actually enjoy, are in the morning with our first cup of coffee or tea, after a meal, after sex, half a dozen or thereabouts sounds about right; Of the twenty or thirty plus that we smoke per day.

If he is still smoking, agree on a limit for him to smoke per day. Don’t be insensitive right off the bat, smokers really think they need their cigarettes more than they really do. Suggest he cuts the No.# of cigarettes smoked in half, whatever the number is now. Thats the first step, then in two weeks cut that in half again. (The problem is, you really have to get him to commit to this, cause honestly, you aren’t going to be around him all the time, are you ??)

SMOKERS ARE ADDICTS!

ADDICTS LIE!

They will lie to you about how many cigarettes they have smoked, if smoking a certain amount will benefit them in some way. “Of course honey, I only smoked the amount you said I could smoke today!”

Rewards and Punishment, how strong of a woman are you ??
We are talking, Mentally strong here, whether you are physically strong or not, doesn’t really matter here, mentally strong.
The purpose is to get him to quit smoking.
With this purpose in mind, can you sexually speaking cut him off from having sex with you ??
On the days that he does not meet or only smoke the amount he is entitled to smoke, he doesn’t get to have any sex, and he is required to please you orally and use a vibrator on you.
Now this works a lot better if he can’t just go into the bathroom or away from you and masturbate, there is a way to prevent this from happening, but you have to be mentally tough. Are you tough enough ??
There are some very well made “Chastity” devices made for men to wear, the better ones are made in Britain, the model is or was the “CB3000″ this was a few years ago, since then I think they have a “CB6000″ out now. This device locks, you have the only keys, and this prevents him from having an erection, let alone an orgasm. So even when he is away from you or out of your sight, he will not be able to masturbate, and he can urinate while wearing it, he can shower or bathe with it on.

The only way “it” comes off, is when he has been a ‘good boy’ and you “unlock” him. You will be amazed, with this tool you will be able to “change” your man in many different ways.
(You see, when you have cut him off in the past, he has always said to himself, no big deal, I can always masturbate when I am away from my wife or girlfriend.)

With this device on him, he can not masturbate at will, he can not masturbate at all, that power has been taken away from him, this really does give you an amazing amount of power over him.

Now then, Punishment, in addition to no sexual action for him, just requires an imaginative woman, you are one of those aren’t you ??

(I even went to public school in Britain, so I know all about physical punishment, spanking, paddling, and canings given to misbehaving boys by housemasters, and headmasters.)

Honestly, all men, are just grown boys. Who sometimes want to act out, or misbehave every now and then anyway! In addition to wanting to misbehave, many men are also submissive and really want a strong dominant woman in their lives!
You knew that, right ??

So, can you “Motivate” your fiance, are you Mentally Strong enough to do that, well are you ??

You do know that he will “Whine and Complain” at least until you have put the “CB 6000″ on him, once that is on him, you will be able to control him much more easily.

I do know what I am talking about, I have battled smoking on and off for many years, I once was submissive and know a fair amount about that subject as well, if you would like to message me off the list, feel free to do so.

I wish you “luck” in changing your man; Or helping him change himself. Sex or the lack of it, is quite an impressive tool when used by a Strong Woman, are you one of those ??