how to ask my girlfriend to quit smoking?
April 28th, 2011
my girl is wanting to quit but she has been saying that for 3 years now and i am trying to find a good way to help her quit smoking without me wanting to leave her for someone else.
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If she knows the terrible effects that smoking has on your body and she knows that it has a negative effect on you and still won’t quit then she isn’t worth the time. Find someone else. There’s no reason for anyone to stay with someone that doesn’t make them completely happy and fulfilled, if there are things that you need changed then move on to someone else that you don’t have to change.
If she says she wants to quit, I think your best way is to do whatever you can to help her.
If she has a really big problem there are many ways to start not smoking. You can also use those nicotine pad things to help.
Here is a good page:
http://www.cancer.org/Healthy/StayAwayfromTobacco/GuidetoQuittingSmoking/index
Be very supportive and help her. If she has problems or you find her cheating on her quitting, it may not be a bad idea to let her know you plan on leaving if she continues this terrible and dangerous habit.
And if she is not willing and does not care about what you think enough, then you should leave her
This also depends on how much you like her and effort you are willing to put in to stop her addiction. She definitely is addicted too, don’t let her convince you otherwise
The best way is to start with I love you. And go from there. I love you and I can’t stand seeing you kill yourself. I love you and I want to be with you a long long time, but I can’t see that happening if you kill yourself with tobacco. Follow it up with you will support her and help her in any way that you can to quit, but that she has to quit or you can’t stay with her because it hurts too bad.
It’s an addiction. You can never talk an addict out of their addiction, no matter how much they say they want to stop. Take her to a smoker support group. Then say stuff like: “did you see that cute girl that quit smoking was giving me the eye? Why can’t you be more like her?” This will either drive her to quit or away. One or the other is surely to happen.
You are using her smoking as a way for you to leave her. Grow a set and tell her it’s not the smoking,you just want out of the relationship! If you love her then you would stay with her no matter what. Was she a smoker when you met her? If so,then go back and read the first sentence I wrote.