How do I get my teenage boyfriend to quit smoking weed?
February 26th, 2011
hes a good guy, he just hangs out with the wrong people, at the wrong time, and I want to change what he does… which is ^^^^^ but i dont want to come off as pushy or greety, Help would be much appreciated.
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Tell him: “The cigarette or ME motherfuckeeeEEeeeEEeeEEeeEEER!!!!”
take him to the doctor
Threaten to break up with him over it. But only if you can do it convincingly.
Better yet, smoke a few and watch Pineapple Express.
take it or leave it.
say that you can not tolerate kit anymore longer.
either he quits or you do.
just tell him how you dont like it and say you wont stay with a pot head because thats no fun.
ive been here, and if hes willing to pick a plant over you, its not worth it anyway. hes your boyfriend, be honest.
Not even married and your trying to change the man! Just kidding. Seriously though, guys at that age are going to smoke weed if they want to whether you like it or not. However if you do have yourself a good guy he will quit if it’s an ultimatum between you and drugs. The con with that plan is, he’s young, naive, and most likely stubborn, so his choice might not be you.
you dont
It is a myth that one person can change another person. If any change is brought about it will be by manipulation. Manipulation is basically trying to force another person to conform to your beleif system. It am not making an argument for or againt his choices of behaviour. Know that manipulation is a form of violence whether physical, emotional. mental. Be Honest with him about your feelings and above all be honest with yourself. Manipulation just leads to more manipulation just as violence begets violence. The only person you can make choices for is Your Self. We all must accept ourselves and others as they are without trying to force change. Let him come to his own conclusions about what his beliefs are and what is important to him. You do the same. Decide what you are willing to accept in the relationship and then there are really only two choices. Stay in the relationship and dishonor your own feelings or move on with you life empowering who you are by honoring your Self.
You don’t. He will quit when he is ready.
my bestfriends, and boyfriend do weed and smoke. they’re 14/15 years old.
you cant MAKE someone stop doing something as its their life, but you could talk to him about it, maybe say, you care about him and his health and you cant stay with someone who’s killing himself.. if he doesnt understand let him go.
like i said, my boyfriend did weed, but i spoke to him about it and he stopped because he loved me. If he doesnt stop, you know what you have to do. good luck!
Just give him an ultimatum. Drugs or me. If he even hesitates, dump him.
Leave him unless he doesn’t.