Should I get hypnotized to get over an ex-boyfriend that will no longer date me?
June 7th, 2011
I fell in love with a guy so badly that I have cried for 3 weeks straight, it is affecting my life very deeply. He acted like he would do anything to get me now he is avoiding me. I can barely work or function and I have never in my life felt so shocked and unable to function due to someone I’ve dated. I think I am sinking into clinical depression I have never reacted so badly towards a guy leaving me. I am worried about myself.
My friend used hypnosis to stop smoking and it worked cold turkey. I think a psychiatrist can hypnotize me to forget I ever met him, it hit me the other day that this just may be the answer. Imagine waking up and not ever knowing that I ever knew him. My insurance is great and I am sure it will cover it. Has anyone ever been hypnotized to forget a tragic past, and does it work?
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try it and tell me how it went..should do that too…:-)
NO!!! Hypnosis isn’t real, it’s just a ploy to get money.
This reminds me of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind….watch it if you haven’t. A girl erases this guy from her memory so he erases her. During it though, he thought about all the great memories that he didn’t want to forget. It’s always painful when you break up with someone. Maybe you should just talk to a psychiatrist and find a healthy way to cope with it. Just forgeting things doesn’t really solve any underlying probelms. Good luck.
Honey: What you are experiencing is normal. Crying is the natural course of things in your situation. Go ahead and cry all you want for only the proper mourning and time will heal your wound. I would advice that you surround yourself with family and friends who will help you overcome your sorrow. Be aware, however, that you must choose to move on and let go. Realize that love is a wonderful thing, but it must be mutual to be perfect. Since he didn’t love you the same way that you loved him, then you must let him go. In time you will find someone new and be in love again. Hypnosis will not cure you and neither will any of those depression drugs out there that only hurt you and prevent the natural progression of things.
A kiss and a hug for you.
Mr. M on “hypnotized.”
i deeply sympatise with you, and honestly i feel you. you dont have to go thru hypnosis swtheart, pray to GOD to give you the grace and strenght to get over him. i make bold to tell you that he his not good enough for you. take care
Your Young and still have your whole life ahead.
Go out with your head held high, and the love of your life could be just around the corner.Just remember he wasn’t the right one for you.
Best of luck to you,but don’t use hypnosis.
GREAT IDEA!!
I think if u r suffering so much, then try it!! i pray that it works for u as being dumped is so hard.
I know it’s hard to believe now, but u WILL get through this. Some advice a man gave to me …
I said “o , my heart is breaking,,,I m in pain, i m devastated how can i ever get over him??”
He said simply “the next one….”
And it’s true!!
Go find a new love!! he WILL be better than this one b-leeve me!!
You will kick yourself for being so upset over this jerk that left u. Rest assured…the same will happen again to him!!
Word of wisdom……
One day, after u have jumped back into life, skipping down the street, smelling the flowers etc…HE will pop back in your life!!
THEN what will u do? that is the question.
Also, this awful feeling u r feeling will mold you into a better person!! You will never treat another like u have been treated. If you decide the NEXT relationship is not for u…u will let that relationship go with maturity & compassion…
LESSON LEARNED ?
Hugs & kisses,
Shay
Allthough I do not know the answer to your question.I just wanted to stop by and give you a big “hug”.My husband did the exact same thing that your boyfriend did and we have been married 5 years and togather even longer than that.I can sympathize with you for wanting to forget him and wanting to move on in your life.Its alomst as if he took a piece of you with him when he walked out that door and I know all too well.. those first few minutes of the morning when you wake up and realize what has happened and the unbearable sense of loss that brings.
I know you may not want to hear this.Heck.I am even having a hard time with this one and he only left 6 weeks ago.But what we have to remember is…. that we belong to ourselves first and nobody else.As women we have a tendancy to put ourslves and our needs on the back burner for others (especially significant others).And when you have done that soo long…. Its hard to gain proper perspective on our wants and needs.This is a time for you to think about yourself.Do the things you have always wanted to do.Take a class, Spend a ridiculus amont of money on a manicure and pedicure.Your friends and family are going to be your backbone right now.Lean on them for support, trust me you would not be burdening them.They are there for you, and Love very much.I know work is difficult for you now,but trust me its keeping you togather.Its not fun but it is eliminating a lot of the down time you would have otherwise.I wasent working when my husband left me and all I had was time and honestly I think it made me worse.Dont be afraid to cry and honestly 3 weeks is pretty good.There is no time limit on how your going to get over this.And dont beat yourself up if you think you should be over it by now.Because its truly like grieving over a lost family member.
Remember that your not alone.And there are people out there feeling just as you are sweetheart.Your going to get through it!!!!! I know it and I promise you….. you will.It just takes time.Church is a great place to start too.Whatever your denomination spirtual counceling and guidence is key in a situation like this.
As far as hypnosis goes… It could work but remember your grief is also sub-concious and if they can somehow get him out of your concious mind.The remnats of what was will remain.Trust me if there was a magical way to get over this.There would be no such thing as heartbreak.Sometimes fate deals us these blows and we never understand it until the day comes when your experience becomes useful to you in the future or someone else.What does not kill you sweetie makes you stronger.I will say a prayer for you and light a candle so that you wil find your way.ANd if you ever need someone to talk to my email is wildsunflower2003@yahoo.com. God Bless You.Big hugs!!!